After tracking forty-plus shapewear conversations across the Nordstrom intimates floor, three plus-size styling appointments, and roughly two years of customer reviews on Reddit and YouTube, one pattern shows up consistently. When a curvy shopper walks in asking for shapewear, the first two brands named are Spanx and Skims. The third name is now almost always Honeylove. That third slot did not exist five years ago. The shapewear category, for the better part of two decades, was a two-horse race between Spanx as the legacy compression brand and Skims as the soft-sculpt newcomer that turned shapewear into a fashion category. The arrival of a credible third option is the most interesting thing that has happened in intimates since the Skims launch in 2019.
Honeylove is the brand sitting in that third slot. It was co-founded in 2018 by Betsie Larkin and her husband Adam, launched out of a Los Angeles apartment on a Kickstarter campaign, and has spent the seven years since building a structural-compression shapewear line that does something materially different from both Spanx and Skims. This piece is about how that happened. Who Larkin actually is, what the brand makes, where it earns the third-name shortlist position, where it still has gaps, and which of the pieces are worth your money if you are deciding whether to add a Honeylove item to the rotation.
The founder story behind the launch
Betsie Larkin (Betsie Goldsmith on some early press) is not a fashion-industry lifer. Before Honeylove she spent more than a decade as a singer-songwriter in the electronic dance music space, with vocal credits on tracks from major producers in the trance and progressive house scene through the late 2000s and 2010s. That career is what funded the early Honeylove prototyping. She has talked in interviews about pulling shapewear apart in her apartment, sketching what she wanted from a piece that did not exist yet, and bringing the rough idea to her husband Adam, who took on the operational side of the early company.
The problem she set out to solve was specific. The shapewear she could buy in 2017 and 2018 either rolled down at the waistband (the legacy Spanx complaint that anyone who has worn a high-waist brief under a dress knows in their bones), or it did not provide real structural compression at all (the Skims complaint – the line skews toward soft smoothing, not waist sculpting). Larkin wanted a piece that held its position through eight hours of wear and actually shaped the midsection rather than smoothing it. The first product was a high-waist brief with what the brand calls Liftwear, a multi-layer waistband with bonded silicone strips and internal boning meant to anchor the garment in place.
The Kickstarter launched in October 2018 and funded its goal within hours. By 2020 the brand had moved beyond briefs into bodysuits, leggings, bike shorts, and the SuperPower line that is now the flagship. Distribution today: Honeylove direct (honeylove.com), Nordstrom, Bloomingdale’s, and a small Amazon presence. The brand has stayed independent, which is unusual in a category where most successful shapewear lines get acquired by a conglomerate within five years.
What the brand actually makes
Honeylove sells structural-compression shapewear. The lineup covers high-waist briefs, mid-thigh shorts, full bodysuits, sculpting bras, smoothing camisoles, leggings, and a small loungewear extension. The structural philosophy is consistent across the line. Every piece is built with the Liftwear waistband or a related bonded-panel system, internal mesh boning at the side seams, and stitched silicone grippers at the leg and bust openings. That construction is the brand’s actual differentiator. It is the reason a Honeylove brief stays at the rib cage through dinner instead of rolling to the navel by appetizers.
The price tier sits firmly above mass-market and below couture. Briefs run roughly $60 to $80. Bodysuits sit at $100 to $130, with the SuperPower Short Bodysuit at the top of that range. Leggings and bike shorts run $70 to $95. Bras are $50 to $75. This is not Target shapewear pricing, and the brand has not chased the bottom of the market. The size range runs XS through 3X across most of the line, with some pieces extending to 4X. That ceiling, somewhere around US size 24, is one of the brand’s real limits and worth knowing about going in.
The fabric mix is the other consistent choice. Honeylove uses a heavier compression knit than Skims and a lighter, more breathable knit than the densest Spanx pieces. The result wears warmer than a smoothing piece from Skims Fits Everybody and cooler than the Spanx Suit Yourself. For a humid summer event the SuperPower will sit in a wearable middle. For a December black-tie it disappears under a column dress without trapping heat.
Where the brand gets it right
The first thing Honeylove earns the shortlist position for is the waistband engineering. The Liftwear waistband works. It is the most under-discussed innovation in shapewear of the last decade, and it is the reason the brand expanded beyond Kickstarter into actual retail shelves. A piece of shapewear that holds its position through eight hours is a different garment from one that does not, and Larkin’s insistence on solving that problem at the construction level rather than papering over it with marketing is the foundational reason the brand exists.
The second is the bodysuit category specifically. The SuperPower Short Bodysuit is the piece most curvy women I know who own Honeylove repurchase. The cut runs flat through the bust without flattening, the leg-hole grippers actually stay put through a full evening, and the snap closure at the gusset is reinforced enough to survive normal restroom use without unsnapping mid-event. For a curvy size 16-18 wearing the bodysuit under a slip dress or a body-skimming knit, the silhouette holds without the visible-panel-line problem that Spanx Suit Yourself sometimes shows through thinner fabrics.
The third is the customer service operation. Honeylove runs a 60-day try-on return window, with prepaid return shipping included in the box. For a shapewear category where fit is fundamentally guess-work without trying the piece on, the generous return window matters more than the marketing copy on the product page. The brand has staked real money on letting customers buy two sizes and return one, and the operational consistency of the return process is part of what has built the third-name credibility.
The fourth is the brand voice, which has stayed founder-anchored without becoming a personality cult. Larkin appears in some marketing but the campaigns are not built around her face the way Skims is built around Kim Kardashian. The brand can sell on the product without needing the founder in every campaign, which is the kind of structural durability that lets a brand survive a founder taking a step back.
Where there is room
Real critique. The price ceiling is the first thing curvy shoppers run into. At $130 for the SuperPower Short Bodysuit, Honeylove is priced above the comparable Spanx Suit Yourself bodysuit and well above the Skims Sculpting and Fits Everybody bodysuits. The construction justifies a premium, but it is a premium that prices the brand out of reach for shoppers who need three or four shapewear pieces in rotation. A single $130 bodysuit is a different financial conversation from a $48 Skims piece.
The second is breathability on the structural panels. The Liftwear waistband and the bonded silicone grippers are part of why the brand works, and they are also part of why the pieces can wear warmer than a softer competitor. For an outdoor August wedding in the South the SuperPower can run hot. The brand has rolled out lighter-weight variants over the last two years but the structural pieces are still warmer than a Skims equivalent.
The third is the size ceiling. Most of the line stops at 3X, which lands around a US 22-24. For shoppers above a 24, Honeylove is not a viable option. The brand has expanded the size range gradually over the seven-year run but has not yet reached the size 28-30 ceiling that Universal Standard and some Eloquii shapewear pieces hit. For the larger end of plus, Spanx still goes higher and a few specialty brands like Glamorise and Shapermint reach further.
The fourth is the bra category, which has felt secondary to the shapewear lineup. The Honeylove bras are competent but not category-defining the way the bodysuits and briefs are. Curvy shoppers in a 38DDD or above will get more reliable lift from Wacoal, Glamorise, or Curvy Couture than from Honeylove’s bra line.
How Honeylove compares to the rest of the category
Honeylove does not exist in isolation. The two reference points worth knowing if you are deciding whether to put a Honeylove piece in your rotation are Spanx and Skims, and the comparison is structural rather than purely about price.
Spanx is the legacy brand and still the volume leader. The Suit Yourself bodysuit, which has been in the line for years and recently saw a refresh, is the most direct competitor to the Honeylove SuperPower. Spanx runs slightly cheaper at the bodysuit level (Suit Yourself sits around $98 to $110 depending on style), and the size range stops higher (most Spanx pieces run up to size 3X or 4X with some pieces going further). The trade-off: the Spanx waistband does not hold its position as reliably as the Honeylove Liftwear, and the silhouette through the midsection is smoother but less sculpted. If you want compression that disappears, Spanx. If you want compression that shapes, Honeylove.
Skims is the soft-smoothing brand and a different product philosophy. The Fits Everybody and Sculpting lines are built for smoothing layer-piece comfort rather than structural waist sculpting. Prices run lower (Fits Everybody bodysuits start around $58, Sculpting around $78), the size range runs broader (XXS through 5X on many pieces), and the silhouette is intentionally less aggressive. The trade-off: Skims smooths but does not shape. For wearing under a knit dress where you want a clean line, Skims is right. For wearing under a structured event dress where you want a defined waist, Honeylove is right.
The honest verdict: these three brands do not cancel each other out. Most curvy shoppers I know who own all three rotate them by occasion. Skims for everyday under T-shirt dresses and knits. Spanx for the high-coverage smoothing piece under a column. Honeylove for the events where the waist needs to be defined, not just covered.
What to buy from them
If you are starting with Honeylove for the first time, do not buy the full lineup. The brand sizes inconsistently across product categories and the smart move is to add one piece, wear it through a real event, and decide whether to expand from there. The pieces that have earned their place in most curvy rotations:
The Honeylove SuperPower Short Bodysuit at $130 is the flagship and the piece I recommend trying first. For a size 16-18 with a longer torso, size up. The bonded panel structure does the actual work the brand sells, and this is the piece that earned Honeylove the third-slot shortlist position.
The Honeylove Liftwear High-Waist Brief at $68 is the piece that started the brand on Kickstarter and the most reliable entry-point if you do not need a full bodysuit. Holds at the rib cage through dinner. Runs true to size.
The Honeylove Sculptwear Mid-Thigh Short at $80 is the under-dress piece for any occasion where you need anti-chafing coverage plus light shaping. The leg grippers actually stay put through a full day of walking.
The Honeylove Crossover Bra at $58 is the most credible piece in their bra category, particularly for B-D cup curvy shoppers who want a structured wireless option. Above a DDD, look at Wacoal or Curvy Couture instead.
The Honeylove SuperPower Thong Bodysuit at $125 is the version of the flagship for wearing under thinner fabrics where the short-bodysuit leg line would show. Same structural compression, no visible panty line through silk or thin knit.
Why this brand matters for the category
Honeylove earns the third-name shortlist position because it solved a structural problem in a category that the industry had treated as mature. The shapewear market had two dominant brands and a long tail of low-quality alternatives, and the working assumption was that there was nothing material left to innovate on. Betsie Larkin pulled apart a piece of shapewear in her apartment, sketched a waistband that did not exist yet, and spent the next seven years executing against the idea with enough discipline to build a brand that now sits on the same shopping list as Spanx and Skims. The fact that the brand has stayed independent through that growth is the most interesting part of the trajectory. Most successful intimates brands get acquired by a conglomerate by year five and lose the founder discipline that made them work in the first place. For curvy shoppers the practical takeaway is that the shapewear conversation has changed. The third name on the shortlist is real, the construction earns the price premium for the right occasion, and the SuperPower Short Bodysuit in a 2X is the piece worth trying first. I have mine in nude under a Christopher John Rogers black knit that I wear every winter. The link is in the section above.
